發生與邀約

人生中每一次的『發生』.....都是上天的邀約                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                   
媽媽要我載她去購物，煩啊，我還有事要做耶；                                                                                                 
哥哥向我借車，心中百般個不願意；                                                                                                                   
弟弟又打電話來說要繳書籍費，呼，賺錢真辛苦；                                                                                                       
家長跑來訴苦著小孩教養問題不想聽；                                                                                                                 
同事晚上打電話來抱怨心事，真想掛斷；                                                                                                               
車子髒了，要洗車；狗狗發臭了，要洗澡…煩啊！                                                                                                         
                                                                                                                                                     
人與人之間的互動，難免心煩氣躁；                                                                                                                   
生活的瑣事，日復一日，有時，連動口吃飯都覺得煩，怎麼天天有一大堆做不完的事。                                                                       
                                                                                                                                                     
直到有天到醫院探視因不小心吸入一氧化碳而中毒的朋友，看到昔日生龍活虎，活躍在職場上的大建築商，現在居然只能包著尿布，四肢扭曲變形，鼻孔插著胃管，咽喉
處開了一個洞放著一根管子。                                                                                                                         
到了進食時間，只聽護士說了一聲「吃飯了」就開始用一根大針筒，                                                                                       
很快地注入一堆糜狀的食物到朋友的胃管，不消一兩分鐘的時間，                                                                                         
再聽到護士說：「好了，吃飽了」，朋友無奈地看著我。                                                                                                 
                                                                                                                                                     
出事的前一餐，那天我與他同桌，還記得他那時邊吃邊抱怨的情景。                                                                                       
如果當時他知道那是他有生之年最後一次能夠用嘴巴咀嚼食物，用味蕾感受美味，我想，那一餐他一定吃得又香又甜！                                           
                                                                                                                                                     
出了醫院的大門，回想生活的點滴，告訴自己，要歡歡喜喜的載媽媽購物、借哥哥車子、替弟弟繳書籍費、聽家長傾訴、洗車、洗狗…這些煩人的生活瑣事，           
也許不再是日復一日」，或許是生命中的最後一次。                                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                                     
珍惜每一次與人、事因緣相聚的時刻，用歡喜心來完成、結緣與布施。                                                                                     
人的相處，要有一種觀念，不是修福就是修慧，換言之，就是幫忙與學習。                                                                                 
                                                                                                                                                     
修福就是幫忙別人，修慧就是學習他人的經驗、優點。                                                                                                   
如果發心正確，生活中雖然有煩心的事，只要念頭一轉，就不會覺得是一件苦差事，                                                                         
                                                                                                                                                     
因為有機會幫助別人，會增長福德，對自己與他人都有好處，所以會歡喜布施才對！                                                                         
                                                                                                                                                     
或許有人會想，別人的責罵、刁難，很難讓人領教。                                                                                                     
如此想也是對，但人生中，有很多是需要忍耐，如果當下能當作是一種學習「忍」，                                                                         
相信「苦」的情況就會改善。因為學習中的人，耐力總是比較大。                                                                                         
                                                                                                                                                     
要深知，人生要碰到的事情很多，也不是你想如何就如何，                                                                                               
只要學會全然接受一切，一切就會變得越好，記得隨時感恩身邊一切人、事、物。                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                     
人生中，來幫助你的人，不會在臉上寫著『我是來幫助你的』,                                                                                             
每一次的『發生』，都是上天的邀約。                                                                                                                 
                                                                                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                                     
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